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(Opinion) Don't Ever Make Friends With These 4 Kind Of People, If You Want To Go Far In Life

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(Opinion) Don't Ever Make Friends With These 4 Kind Of People, If You Want To Go Far In Life

Whether you agree or not FRIENDSHIP is one of the strongest relationships in the world. Friendship is influencing, it is very strong, it is more like a remote that controls the mind of group of people. As far as an individual has somebody he always like to be with, somebody he can talk freely with (aside family members), that person must be influencing his life in one way or the other.

Everybody wants to make progress, everyone wants to go far in life, but the painful truth is that only a few people eventually achieve their dreams, others either got confused along the way or were blown off by the strong forces of the world. Friendship is one of those strong forces, a force that can either make or destroy person, a force that can change a life forever.

The kind of friends people keep say million words about them. Like they always say "show me your friends and I will show you who you are", some think those words are joke, but the real truth is that it explains how influencing friendship is to humanity. Human existence has to do with development, communication, playing of cards, achieving your dreams and helping others achieve theirs too. All these things listed above also center on FRIENDSHIP.

I suppose you have some people you call your true friends, people you run to in times of need, people who you normally seek advice from, people you while away your time with, now the question is "what and what can you boldly say that you have achieved in that friendship?" are the achievements negate or positive? Is there anything missing? Or have you started having some regrets? With that your friend, are you making the progress you desired? Do you see yourself going far in life with him/her?

Some friends can make you achieve some positive things you desire in life, some can draw you backwards while some can even destroy you if care is not taking. This article discusses 5 set of people you should try to avoid if you want to go far in life. Those set of people will likely impact your life negatively, you must therefore thoroughly wash your face, look carefully before you select your friends, you should also avoid those bad ones and avoid them.

If you want to go far in life, avoid making friends with these 4 kind of people

#1. People who always think about partying and enjoying life

Once in a while, you need to go have good time with your friends, but when it becomes priority, it leads someone into the dark. Following people who always want to party will not add much value to your life, you may never have savings as long as you continue to follow them. Don't make the mistake of making friends with them, and then believe that they can't influence you. You will be surprised when you see yourself becoming worse than them.

The best thing for you to do is to avoid those kind of people as much as you can. You can be associating with them on normal basis, but you don't need to make them your true friends. Following them will only divert your mind from important things, tell me "what will you achieve in that state?". If you want to progress in life, you must always avoid people that won't add much value to your life.

#2. People who discourages you from starting a business or working hard

Have you ever had a friend who always discourage you from finding something to do, something that will be generating you income? Some will be like "man, you are bigger than this, you don't need business, what you need now is to enjoy life". Some will also tell you "do you want to kill yourself with business, come on this life is meant to be lived only once, why don't you enjoy it instead of suffering yourself?". Those kind of people will be a stumbling block to your progress if you don't avoid them early in life.

Following people who discourage you from starting a business, will eventually lead you to poverty

Anybody that makes you think that business is not important or that you should cross your legs and keep waiting for huge job, that person don't want you to progress and the best thing you can do for yourself is to avoid that person. In life progress and success come with hardwork, business plans and having people who think in the right direction as you. Don't ever make the mistake of choosing a "discourager" as your friend.

#3. People who are lazy both physically and mentally

Any friend that comes to you on a working day, without asking you why you didn't go to work , is not good for you. This world work with the law of "push and pull", people need people that can pull them back when they go astray or push them towards the right direction. People need people that will motivate them to work harder and not people that doesn't care whether they have anything doing or not.

With those lazy people around you, you won't go far in life

Lazy people don't usually think about what they can do to better their lives, when they do, they usually procrastinate which eventually lead them to achieving nothing. People who are lazy in thinking (in the sense that they don't think about how to improve their lives) or people who are physically lazy ( people who usually procrastinate), should be avoided if one desires progress.

#4. People who always talk about boyfriend and girlfriend relationship

Relationship is just one aspect of human life, if all focus is centered on it, other important things will never be achieved. There are friends who only know how to chase girls or follow boys, there is nothing in this world they want to listen to except relationship stuffs. In the side of men, any small money they get is usually spent on women, while in ladies, they usually spend the whole of their day gossiping and discussing how to hook up with a particular guy they like, leaving important things behind. Those kind of people are not good for people who want to achieve big things in life.

Don't say that your friends can't influence your thoughts because they can actually do. Don't say that there is no way you will ever follow them do what you don't like, you might stay focused for a period of time, but one day you may find yourself in a big mess. The ideal thing to do is to avoid those set of people who you don't like their lifestyle, try to make friends with people who can encourage, strengthen you and ensure that you continue following the right path.

In conclusion, this article doesn't call for discrimination or you thinking that you're better than your counterparts, the message is that you should choose your friends wisely. Choose friends that will impact your life positively, and also according to the direction you want to go in life. Don't be among the people that don't believe in their friends influencing their lives, if you do, you may find yourself grieving in solitude and regrets at last.

You have been presented with a chance to make a timely reflection in your life. A chance to checkmate the kind of friends you make and how they influence your life. This article is an eye opener to some friendship mistakes people normally make, it will be nice if you take this article to your heart and make friends with people that will better your life.
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If you make friends with people that do not benefit your life positively please stay away from such people

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If you make friends with people that do not benefit your life positively please stay away from such people

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Number 4 is so common among our ladies

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